YAY! It’s finally Spring y’all! Has everyone else been looking forward to it as much as I have? I don’t know about y’all but although I am a lover of Winter, I was ready for Spring. I love all the April showers and soon to come May flowers. Nothing makes me happier than beautiful Spring-time blooms. I re-potted some flowers recently and they are blooming beautifully! How about y’all? Has Spring been good to y’all thus far? I sure hope so!
Well, today, I wanted to hop on and give y’all a quick update on my healing journey. Life is grand! I am doing well most days, still have an occasional few somber days here and there, but it’s getting better with every passing day. I am very grateful for that. I’m also still playing the field. I have a few cuties I am juggling and getting to know. It’s actually nice to finally enjoy being single and putting myself out there. I know for sure that I am not ready to commit to any one person for the time being, because honestly it just wouldn’t be fair. My whole heart cannot be in it right now. I still love and miss Obed, but at least now I am able to move on with the idea that I will eventually find someone to love.
& now, that Spring has sprung, it’s Pimp Season! HA
Right now, I am still working on myself and focusing on my own wants and needs in my life. However, I will say, that it is quite nice to have men-friends that show interest and reassure a sista, that she never-ever really lost her groove! tee-hee Now, if only I could meet a dude with $100 million dollas! I would marry him in a heartbeat! HA HA
I’m totally kidding y’all. Y’all know I am a woman about her hustle. I always joke around about being a gold digger, now that marrying for love didn’t quite work out for me! Really, it’s all just bullshit. I am a woman of morals and values. Now, I AM a goal-digger, but I also ain’t messing with no broke jiggas! Do y’all feel me?
Recently, all the guys I have on deck as potential “babes” (as I like to call them), all have something great going for themselves and I can dig it. There is something sexy about a man that has his shit together. What I really look for in a mate is chivalry, respect, and most importantly a relationship with Christ. If a man has that, the rest just kinda flows together. Of course, a great, laid-back and adventurous personality totally resonates well with me. Life is too short to be boring all the time. I need some adventure, because you better believe that if you roll with me, there is never a dull moment!
I want a man to keep me on my toes, make me laugh, smile, court me and of course, feed me and you can have my heart! HAHAHA
Well folks, that’s really all for now. Stay tuned for more of my silly pimping adventures on my quest to find new love. I will blog more about some of my dates later. Toodles!!!!